Outcall Massage Etiquette: What Clients Notice First
Most men think an outcall massage begins when touch begins. In reality, it starts much earlier: with the way someone enters your space, reads your rhythm, and understands what should remain simple, discreet and natural.
Over the years I learned that small details make the entire experience feel either elegant or uncomfortable. Especially when the session happens in a private apartment or hotel room, where trust is immediate and silence often says more than words. This is why some professional habits matter far more than people imagine.
These are exactly the details that also explain why many international visitors now choose a private interactive tantric massage when staying in Barcelona: less friction, more comfort, and a rhythm that adapts naturally to the place where you already are.
Dos and donts of out-call massage
As a gay erotic Tantra masseur I am also offering out-call massage. Many local customers in Barcelona enjoy the convenience of being served at their homes. And that’s also “out-call”. Out-call is having your massage wherever you are.
Since businessmen from around the world are also using this very convenient, time-saving and money-saving service. This is why I also perform my best gay massages inside your hotel room. On demand!
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What makes an outcall session feel naturally right
These are some tips I always teach the masseurs who want to join my team. As a result, I know our customers will be very happy with us! And finally come back and recommend us to their best friends.
Avoid gossiping
Gossiping just at the first moment of entering the customers’ apartment. That’s un-sexy and can be a serious turn-off if the client is not in that mood; he is usually horny! Some guys even feel this like an intrusion. So don’t be the first to be talkative. Some customers are, though they might be putting you on test. Don’t disclose any information about other customers, where you are just coming from or going to next. Previous or next customers are especially a no-no. Your customer could be thinking you’ll speak about him to the next one. As masseurs, we want you to feel as the one and only man on Earth. And do we achieve this! Just check these weird testimonials!
Once a customer told me:
We’ve been speaking too much. Now I repent of disclosing so much information about myself. Will you be able to forget it, please?”
The best way is not even going there. I understand though that after such an intimate massage it feels really nice to lay on the bed and spend some time talking. Something we call pillow talk? Prudence is always a good advisor. And our clients have a schedule!
Common sense will tell you to keep private confessions in a small dose. It’s better to leave too early than too late. Additionally, if you leave the client with the need to spend some more time, he’ll probably call us again the next day.
Don’t ask for a drink
Usually it should the customer who is offering it if the masseur is visiting him at his apartment or hotel room. So let him feel like the master at his own place. Many customers enjoy it. Yes, they like to serve you! Because this is a way to be showing some hospitality. Many others want to go straight to the massage though. It might be getting late to them or they may forget it. Don’t be the one asking for it. You don’t want to listen to an answer as “I don’t have any!”
From our point of view, sometimes a guy requesting us to stay more time feels abusive. Customers know we have other appointments, and we don’t want to be late for the next client.
“The guy yesterday wanted to stay here with me. I felt embarrassed to tell him I have a meeting so he needs to go”.
This is also a reason for us to avoid it. It can easily turn from a nice intentions detail into an uncomfortable moment. So remember that being a professional means sticking to the schedule.
Don’t touch stuff
Sometimes you are left alone in the hall. Just a minute. Or for a short moment that starts feeling too long. While the guy is looking for the money or on the phone. Don’t touch his books, his stuff on the coffee table, nor look too close at his framed family pictures.
Commenting art items or antiques is also risky. Your customer might be paranoid and think you are collecting information about expensive goods. In Spain some delivery services are connected to burglars who collect interesting addresses for the Summer robbery campaign. We never do that. Our job is massage, not commenting about anybody’s items.
Avoid personal comments
This guy showed me his ex-boyfriend on a picture with him, and I went:
Wow, was he handsome!”
This customer felt immediately jealous because he unstood it as he was not as sexy as his ex. So that’s a mistake. We need to be always extremely discrete. Silence is always the smartest option.
The unexpected
What the masseur feels every second is very relevant to sense if the situation is right or not. Sometimes failure comes with the most unexpected situations. It is hard to foresee, but holding back, not acting or keeping silent are always the best advise. And these are the opposite concepts of risk. So don’t take risks. Some of these situations are described on our amazing erotic stories. Sexy and real!
Dos and donts touching the money
You might think the money on the counter is for you. Don’t assume anything though! Let the customer be the one handing it to you. I use to have a customer who is always putting the money on the night stand. To me this is some very “escortish” habit. Time and again I always wait for him to point at it. I just wait. He knows.
Grabbing the money immediately feels greedy from the masseur’s part. Patience is always a virtue. And much more elegant! Finally, if the client forgets to pay you, it’s smarter to ask for it than just take it from the counter.
Dos and donts Conclusions: invisible details clients always remember
I know the word “common sense” is always a safe tip. But frequently it is much easier to evaluate situations after it all happened. However, common sense is the least common of all senses. Trust the small angel-voice in your head. She always says the opposite of the evil-voice that feels tempting, quick and risky!
Finally, if you need some more examples and useful tips please check this guide on serving a massage client. I bet you never thought about all these!
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Don’t pee in the shower
Use the toilet. Your are not home. The pee smell could be hard to go away from the bath-tub and the customer might feel uncomfortable about it.
This is also true when playing water sports! I once received a golden shower by a customer —as an extra fetish massage service. So I assumed he would not mind me peeing in the shower after we finished the massage. He was really disgusted though. Because he only likes the smell of his own pee. The best and easiest advise is “do just what they are asking you to do”.
Before booking privately
Do you have any suggestions about these dos and donts of out-call massage? Please get back at me! her you can check some weird FAQs and also incredible testimonials.
If you prefer privacy from the first minute
Finally, I will be very happy to serve you! Paco: contact me! Go on exploring my site, there is much more stuff about specific subjects!
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By the way, this is a good moment to remind the fact that erotic massage or tantric massage are some very special services. Something so intimate and so personal!
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