29 Aug Where are the Massage red lines?
Massage red lines are set on different points. This is obviously depending on the masseur. Of course the receiver has a lot to say as well!
The clue to the best massage experience is finding the common interests. Because everybody has a say. So customer and masseurs need to agree on the features.
This way, everybody will be happy and satisfied!
Massage red lines
As you guess, red lines and limits work in both ways.
For instance this potential customer wants to make sure there is no prostate massage. I never ask about the reasons though. Because all these are personal and absolutely legitimate preferences.
Fortunately I can offer this feature to other customers who are very interested in prostate massage!
As another example, and it may seem unbelievable to you, there are some arabic men who don’t want me to be naked.
The opposite happens when a customer is requesting services I don’t feel comfortable with.
Red line examples
Limits or red line examples are like the following:
- Mutual touch
- Prostate stimulation
- Some role-plays (submission or domination)
- Mutual masturbation
Take them as limits for the both sides. Now we will go deeper into this subject.
I think it is relevant to talk about this since masseur and escort are different jobs. Because everybody knows what the word “massage” means —hopefully!
Even though in some countries “massage” is am euphemism to avoid the word “sex”. Because in those countries sex is not allowed as a service. While in Europe we understand all these concept in a different way.
Flexible Massage red lines
As a professional erotic masseur my limits need to be flexible. And I am flexible by nature! So this is no effort to me.
Consequently, it is much easier to adapt to a wider range of customers if my limits are more open.
Flexibility, as everything, has a limit hough. You can’t stretch a chewing gum endlessly.
So it finally also applies to my massage service. I can go quite far. It is relevant though we can discuss a minute about the details. Especially if you are aware your request is somewhat special.
Massage and balance
Balance is a relevant aspect in all services. Offering a too limited massage with no flexibility is a bad idea. And also the opposite is a bad idea. Because going too far means it is not a massage anymore. If there are no red lines to cross, it fails in “being sexy”.
I know many professional masseurs who started stretching the limits a bit too far. In no time they were unable to give a perfect massage anymore.
Trust me when I say that anything else is much easier than performing a real massage. Giving the perfect massage needs awareness, concentration, protocol and some self control. Besides the compulsory professional training!
A professional masseur is always thinking about his customer satisfaction. Instead of his own pleasure. This is a relevant point to keep in mind.
Gay massage topics
Some of my friends tell me:
“Your job must be very easy! You only serve gay men!”
Well, gay men are exactly as wonderful and as controversial as any other market segment.
Oftentimes we all think gay men are more open minded. Though gay men —all of us— are human in all senses!
Some of us are truly open minded. Others instead have a narrow vision on life. Whether too gay or too closeted or conservative. Just as an example!
Of course I respect all points of views.
Sometimes narrow minded guys are very easy to satisfy. And sometimes open-minded guys are a stone in your shoe.
Since dealing with intimacy is not selling a Coke!
- Culture and arts
Just to mention a few aspects. It’s difficult to find not even 5 guys in a group who share the same interests and preferences.
Now what about men?
- Lean or chubby?
- Muscular or fragile?
- Hairy body or smooth?
- Young or expert?
- Cut or uncut?
- Hairy or bald?
So now imagine when it comes to an intimate massage! Sometimes the massage checklist is also an amazing grocery list!
This is who I am:
Since there are many options, I’m quite sure you”l find the one that fits you best! For instance, interactive tantric massage!
Now you know a lot more about myself and my massage service, contact me anytime!
If you have any question, please feel free to ask!