24 Mar Effective: 3 keys to erotic massage
These only 3 keys to erotic massage are the most relevant. So without one of them there is no feasible erotic massage!
You should not miss them if you really intend to be successful in your erotic bodywork. They are excellent for your personal life and also useful for professional masseurs. Though I’m quite sure professional masseurs already know them!
Of course there are many more techniques! Though we cut it to just 3 tricks to make it easier and absolutely effective.
Effective keys to erotic massage
First off, you can consider that erotic massage is also some kind of art. Because it needs some talent and the joy to perform it. You’ll sure understand after trying it!
Furthermore, if you really put some sexy attitude into it you will succeed for sure!
So what else do you need?
1: the setting
Ambiance is extremely relevant. Part of seduction is showing that you have been preparing the whole moment with some special interest.
- Soft music
- Candles and soft lighting
- Burn some scent sticks
- Cushions for the massage surface
- Some velvet or silk or linen
- Some drinks: Tea? Champagne?
Setting is keys to erotic massage
Use your own imagination. You surely know what your partner loves. The giving attitude is extremely relevant for seduction.
If you just met your receiver recently, this event will give you relevant clues about him! Because sharing the intimate world is relevant for relationships.
2: your attitude
Your warm smile, your softer voice. The way you greet, the way you undress. Think in terms of seduction. That’s the keyword!
- Facial expression
- Sexy underwear
- Greeting attitude
Attitude is keys to erotic massage
Don’t talk too much. Focus on the moment and on the skin on skin communication. You need to switch from spoken language to body language.
3: take your time
Everybody thinks on eroticism in different terms. Sometimes fetish have a strong influence on turn ons and turn offs.
Because intimacy is as unique as every person. So everybody has a different idea about sensual communication.
Though time and pace are extremely relevant keys to success. Because you can’t force sexual excitement. So think in the opposite conditions to rush. We already have too much rush in our personal and professional lives. And you want this to be a very special moment.
- Slow moves
- Awareness of here and now
- Don’t rush
- Deeps looks —make it natural and genuine!
- Slow fire cooks, fast fire burns!
- Enjoy the time together
- Use a secret clock to control the time
There are many tricks to watch the time. One of them is hiding a small watch you can check every now and then. At the start time will pass somewhat slowly. But once you get into the right wavelength, it will speed up insanely!
You should be aware of how long you are taking for this intimate meeting. Though your partner should loose control of time! He should be completely in your hands! No pun intended.
Once we speak about mindful massage this is what we mean. Besides, the masseur is in charge. He controls the timing and the pace. Because the giver of massage is aware of everything he is doing on the receiver.
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After reading this please check my naked massage, prostate massage and relaxing massage. Because all of these techniques are different and have an amazing effect on the receiver!
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