19 Dec Introduction to gay Tantra
In this introduction to gay Tantra you will find some very useful information. Especially for men who are curious and wish to explore this new kind of bodywork!
Our gay Tantra massage is the sort of sensual bodywork specifically developed for male to male interaction. I am frequently asked to explain what it is all about. So here it goes!
Introduction to gay Tantra
Tantra massage is a universal experience, so for all human beings, no matter gender, interests, status. Of course, it is for adults over 21 years of age!
It is an amazing experience because it woks on the personal dimension of sensuality. Which is a relevant part of life for most of the people. No matter if male, female or transgender. Also no matter what culture, religion, geographic location or income.
In other words, “gay Tantra” and “straight Tantra” are Tantra, consequently a similar experience. Of course you should be always free to choose who you prefer as a partner and as a masseur!
Tantra massage is about an intimate way to share time and sensuality. As you guess, the context is intimate skin to skin communication.
More so Tantra massage is known for its spiritual approach to our sensual and sexual dimension. Absolutely no rush, no violence, no stress nor anxiety.
Control is another keyword for Tantra. If you agree with your significant half to enjoy a Tantra session you need to share the goal of control.
The best gay tantra masseurs
In order to become an excellent gay Tantra masseur you need to have several foundations on massage. First is chiro-practic or legitimate massage. Then you need to learn erotic massages, and then we suggest you have a professional course of Tantric massages.
This explains why you won’t find as many tantric masseurs!
As you will see on the individual professional profiles of our exclusive masseurs, each one has a different foundation and unique talents. Some of them know how to give excellent Tantric massages, while some others don’t. We are honest at all times, and please feel free to call us so we can suggest the perfect professional for you.
Gay Tantra’s benefits
Gay Tantra massage offers an almost unlimited amount of benefits. It can be a way to release tensions and stress, but it also covers many emotional dimensions like self esteem or overcoming the fear of touch. The therapy aspects cover a really wide range of extremely personal needs.
Some guys use the Tantric massage to learn new tricks to use in their private lives or with their partners.
While some others use this service to enjoy sensuality and achieve sexual satisfaction.
As you can see, you can put your own goals and, if you communicate them correctly, we will be able to perform exactly the sort of bodywork you need this time.
The best way to enjoy sensuality
This massage isn’t exactly a gig be can do in a regular massage box though. Sensuality needs some rituals, some preparation and some ambiance. We will build the right atmosphere, mood and receptivity for you to make the mot out of it.
You are absolutely free to choose any other masseur from all the ones advertising on exclusive masseurs! Choose the city you are visiting and please feel free to ask about each masseur’s special talents and fees!
Tantra and ambience
We will also need a special space to make the session possible.
Further than just a space, we need to set up a nice ambient. Have also in mind you are going to share a long session. Because this is part of the deal!
- Dim the lights
- Use candles
- Burn sandal sticks to scent the room
- Play some soft and non intrusive music
- Lock the door!
- Make sure there will be no interruption
- Put the phones on “plane mode”
Then concentrate on your partner! Well, it’s best expressed as:
Concentrate on each other“.
What is going to happen
It is almost sure you will end up making love. Though don’t start with this idea in mind —avoid it as a goal. So take intercourse as a present or a consequence of intimacy, not as a goal.
- Sit facing each other
- Value this present moment
- Look inside your partners eyes
- Breathe together
- Control and limit your breathing
- Find consciousness
- Enjoy awareness of this sexy moment!
- Feel how much you desire each other
A video on introduction to gay Tantra
You will need from 5 to 15 minutes to calm down and start to dive into this present moment. Don’t move. You are free and welcomed to smile, but try not to laugh. Laughing could break the moment and turn it into something superficial. Smiling though is a best way to express happiness. While at this point.
- Touch each other starting by the face
- Then softly caress his ears
- Touch his head and his hair
- Softly touch his chest
- Use your fingertips
- See the areas of his body you are touching
- Be conscious
- Block the concept of time out of your present moment
Each person has unique requests when it comes to massage, so we set up a range of different gay Tantric massage menus.
We are describing in much more detail all the features each menu is including on the specific links:
45 minutes—there are more options though!
One hour. Ask if the extended session is available!
45 minutes —check all other available options!
45 minutes: explore if you like it!
One hour, the most popular option these days!
75 minutes —for those who think one hour is too short and 90 minutes too long!
90 minutes 300 €
2 hours or full 120 minutes!
Feel free to ask about extras as in the new…
(+50 € extras)
How to build sexual excitement
If you feel attracted to him then you desire him. You desire his body and his soul. Because this is not just a superficial moment.
Maybe this is not a fuck-buddies experiment. Though it is legitimate if it is the case, absolutely!
Sexual excitement comes naturally. Everybody has his own pace. Some men get hard sooner than others. Respect your own pace and his.
- Touch the inner side of his legs
- Caress his balls with your finger tips
- Touch his penis softly
- Avoid masturbation at this point
- Change your positions according to what you both feel
- Move slowly
- Act helping him to predict so he can adapt to your next position
- Explore positions
- Rub the body parts you feel most excited to his counterparts
- Chest on chest contact
- Face to face
- Dick on dick
- Make it last
- Control climax
Pace is also relevant to achieve the longest enjoyment.
After reading this introduction to gay Tantra you will probably decide when, where and with whom to enjoy it! We hope it helped you!
So this is also a description of how a tantric session can take place. Of course each and every session follows a different path and consequently has a very different outcome. Check the Tantra protocols if you need to more more about this!
These are some guidelines I use for my tantric massage for gay men. Though each session is absolutely different. Because there are no two equal persons in the world!
We will come back and follow this point in a next post soon. There’s much more to this introduction to gay Tantra, so stay tuned!
In the meantime you are welcomed to explore more abut gay massage without leaving this website:
Exclusive gay masseurs: so you can freely choose among a range of different body, age and professional profiles.
Interactive Tantric massage is the most requested session, but there are some more!
FAQs:we’¡d like to answer whatever doubts you have. Some of them are already answered here.
Testimonials about other clients have experienced and described our sessions.
I also have a Spanish site where I explain Tantra in more detail: Paco Tantra.
If you feel you still need more information, the best is contacting us directly!
Last but not least, these are the safety guidelines we always follow —since 2010! We especially watch bacteria and viruses, which we kill using an ozone generator!
See you soon in Barcelona!