Gay men needs

Gay men needs

Gay men needs

Gay men needs are as different as everyone’s uniqueness. Though there are some common needs we all share.

Yesterday I served this Canadian man. Tall, sexy, handsome. And after the massage we also shared a very interesting conversation.

“You know, as a gay man I do need lots of sex!”

With this simple line he implied that all gay men share the need of “lots of sex”. But is this affirmation really accurate? And fair?

A few hours later, the next client I served told me something different:

“You can find sex everywhere. But I prefer some very intimate and sweet communication. The kind you’re giving. And trust me this is very difficult to find.”

Different men, different needs. All gay.

That’s when I thought that we all need different things, different days. Our needs may change during the day and the week. During the years our needs may change substantially.

Human needs

Of course the fact we are speaking about gay men does not mean we are different from all other humans. The tag “gay” is a bit too excluding to me. While it helps to the feeling of belonging to a strong community. Which is always great! Though in all other aspects, I’d like to refer to humans. I can’t see much differences between gay men and all other human beings on this planet.

Every person needs —and deserves!— in my opinion:

  • Safety
  • Respect and dignity
  • Food
  • Shelter
  • Company
  • Past, present and future
  • Awareness

I’m not a philosopher or a psychologist, so to specialists these might sound very basic or even weird concepts.

Basic Gay men needs

To go on with this post I’d like to consider that all basic needs are covered. I know there are millions of people on this planet lacking basic conditions. All my respect to them from these words. I know I’m on a privileged side of the world.

Back to our reality, we are the ones who don’t need to worry about food and shelter. Because we might be in an elaborate state of civilised entourage.

Despite many intellectuals say we don’t need a job, the cold fact might be we do! So let’s say we have a nice job. Now we can pay all the bills.

Then we have like more elaborate needs.

Gay men needs

Gay men needs

Elaborate gay men needs

This is what most of gay men adore:

  • Music
  • Socialising
  • Sex
  • Traveling
  • Fine dining
  • Movies
  • Fine arts
  • Gadgets and electronics
  • Luxury — as in fancy cars and jewels
  • Cultural life

I am sure everyone has a different priority order though. What is yours?

Where are the spiritual needs though?

  • Volunteering
  • Religion or spirituality
  • Friendship
  • Fatherhood
  • Introspection
  • Mindfulness
  • Personal growth

Special needs

After all these years of serving as an erotic masseur I have seen how so many men lack tenderness.

“Having sex with my partner doesn’t mean he’s sweet and tender. I miss a deeper kind of sensual communication with him. He is not capable of it though. Yet I have this strong and aching need.”

Don’t think everybody who smiles is happy. Because we all try to show our nicest face to the world. But deep down we sometimes feel there are many uncovered needs.

As you can read in one of my erotic stories, there are many men who also like to explore. Call them curious, call them adventurous.

Though the gay man is not always alone. Many act as a very solid unity, as the guys who like to share our hot couples massage.

Tantric massage and gay men

This is exactly what the tantric massage is for. Luckily, we are living in a very specialised society. There is a painter if you need to paint your house. A gardener to keep and improve your home landscape design. Also a chef to cook for your parties. And finally a lawyer to defend and protect your interests.

You can’t expect just everything from your partner. Though I am sure you have a wonderful one!

So before your need for intimacy is aching, you know you have professionals like me.

I’m also not alone in this. Fortunately you can choose among many exclusive masseurs!

Gay Tantra

This special sort of massage is perfect to cover and fulfil many deep needs. Because we have them!

  • Awareness of sensuality
  • Tenderness
  • Intimate communication
  • Skin contact
  • No strings company
  • Release and sensual satisfaction

As many of my clients say:

“The time with you feels like a bubble. Because I enjoy disconnecting from the world and all those troubles. So it is like breathing up with fresh air!”

As you can see, I like to talk about this. Please feel free to call me and discuss your personal needs.

Contact Paco!

Here you can check the different massage sessions we can enjoy together:

I have a very good friend who can give you even more, like gay escort services: it’s Matt and some friends.

Hopefully I will see you soon in Barcelona!

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