True Tantra: does it really exist? What is it all about? Who on Earth can say is practising True Tantra?
I’ve been finding many guys stating they are “the only guy” offering True Tantra on Earth. You will also be able to find some websites with a badge of “True Tantra”. Whatever a guild, an association or a business, you should investigate a bit about it.
There is no universal definition about what True Tantra is about. Sometimes they also say “Real Tantra”. You know there is not a “true Burger” nor “real architecture”. Because as everything human, there as many approaches to it as people on Earth.
What would you think if a lawyer says he is offering “true advocacy”?
Even the best Chefs on Earth don’t call themselves “true chefs”. Because no matter how many Michelin stars they have. Humbleness is always a virtue.
Especially marking oneself as the only one who does it sounds really arrogant to me.
On the other hand, professionals need to differentiate from amateurs. Though amateurs are the first to use tags as “true” or “real”.
True Tantra types
What we certainly can do is tell the different categories of tantric massages.
Basically, the sensual are the erotic massages. While the spiritual ones can be limited to breathing techniques and Yoga postures. Because each Tantra masseur has his personal view.
Spiritual True Tantra
I only tried a “True Tantra” expert once. He was totally dressed up. As myself for the first half of the session time. Which took barely 50 minutes. After a 30 minutes interview about my sexual life, he started throwing little papers on top of me. He picked one of them and read a word. Some random English word I instantly forgot because it was absolutely meaningless.
He said though that this had to be a clue-word about my inner self.
There was nothing happening in that session you could describe as skin contact. I always believed “massage” is about a professional touching the receiver’s body. Touch with some intention. To him the word “massage” was about talking and then putting me naked on top of a massage table. Of course I had no erection since there was no stimulation at all. Not even visual.
“You have no erection. So you must have sexual problems”.
He stated. Then he immediately finished the session. He told me I need like a dozen of tantric sessions with him. Because “Real Tantra” needs weekly appointments by dozens.
“You know it is a slow process. Finding your own path in the Universe”.
On the other hand, there are many guys using the word “Tantra” to sell escort services. As in some Asian countries, where sex is offered under the word “massage”.
I found many Asian guys requesting a Tantra massage. Though what they really meant was anal penetration. As in “tantric sex”. Again, in the Western world “sex” and “massage” are different words to describe different practises.
If you read more posts on my blog you’ll see I’m always honest. I always try to use the right words. To explain what I’m really offering you.
Because I want to be very clear about the service I’m offering.
My personal Tantra
I guess I found the perfect balance between spirituality and sexual excitement. Ninety-nine percent of my customers say my personal blend of sex and spirituality is perfect. So just what they needed. Some of them call it sacred sex.
“You are not the gross guy who is selling undercover sex. You are a peaceful guy. Sexy, nice, clean and very expert in all erotic touches. Your massage has been the hottest I ever had! And the most fulfilling!”
Because spirituality and sexual excitement do get along very well!
“I feel so well now! In fact, looking for a cloud number! You give everything: the skin communication, the sexual communication, some patience and the will to share the perfect intimacy. You hit the target!”
This is not True Tantra
As a conclusion, I can only say I’m not the “true Tantra” guy. My personal blending is very special though. Maybe it’s the most requested erotic massage style. One guy once told me I’m “too mainstream”. What he did not know is he was the exception. Because some are only aiming to be the exceptional guy. To get something more expensive. Something an escort can offer them. Like Matt does.
Any questions? please feel free to contact me. I will be very happy to answer you!
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