First time gay experiences are a key date to remember. Whatever the kind of experience though! And for many men.
It is frequent among curious bisexual men and even straight men: trying out a gay intimate experience is a mixture of fear and fascination.
First time gay experience
Because to many men this first time is a very fascinating moment. Since it mixes different feelings. Fear and curiosity. It causes nervousness and unspeakable worries. These men can’t share their thoughts with anybody.
As far as they told me, many men are planning this for a long long time. Sometimes for years. Though the longer the time the deeper the suffering and the fear. It is like a snow-ball. More and more dangerous while it grows in size. So the expectations are also growing.
Finally, it is just you who can set a date, a place and maybe a gay masseur to find out.
And thanks God there is a first time when all the pieces seem to be coming together.
Fear and pleasure
So the fear turns into pleasure and serenity after living it up. This is a common feature all curios men tell me after their first gay massage with me.
“Thank you. I felt so natural! Your first hug erased all my nervousness. I feel like I know you for a long time. This has been absolutely wonderful! I’ll be back for sure!”
First time gay intimacy
While some other men tell me this:
“I had this with a man for the first time many years ago. I didn’t like it. But I don’t know if it did not work because of that particular guy. Or maybe it was me. So I’d like to test it again because I guess I will like it. This time I’d like to test my homo-eroticism using your gay massage”.
Massage has many advantages over other sorts of intimacy:
- Massage is a safe environment for curious men
- Reciprocity is not forced
- Massage is emotionally safe
- You can see it as a test
- Massage is STD safe
- No oral
- No penetration
- Tantric massage is a professional service
You always set the limits and the boundaries when ordering a massage. As you know, in some encounters you can’t previously deal what you allow to do your counterpart. Those are not planned sessions. Because many gay men don’t like to feel limited to specific boundaries.
Casual stuff and cruising are especially risky in many aspects. Also for health and emotionally.
First time gay massage
“You know this is something I’ve been planning for a long time. Because I can’t see just any random guy. Since I found your website and read it and saw your pictures I know I can trust you. I am certain you must be very careful”.
Most of these men are living under an unconceivable secrecy. Because everything involving man on man intimacy is strictly forbidden by law, both religious laws and civil laws. Prison and torture are sometimes like the Damocles spade menacing a man’s reputation.
Far from home: first time gay stuff
Men from the United States, Canada, Australia and European countries have a different strategy though. Because being far from home feels safe to them. Also because there is no witness on their whereabouts.
“After your massage I had a couple days to calm down and ease my sense of guilt. My wife would never understand this. Not to mention approve it!”
So it feels safer making a test like this when being away from home for some days.
“This has been a really nice experience. It felt comfortable since you came in. You adapted to my pace. You also have been in charge but I really couldn’t notice, everything felt natural and spontaneous. I enjoyed you big time!”.
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