12 Feb Amateur escorts and the new risks
Amateur escorts are more and more frequent in Spain. Nothing against them! Just a small checklist for you to learn some relevant facts —for your safety.
Some of my closest friends happen to be escorts —professional escorts for the record. So what I know about their personal lives and their professional issues is all first hand information, almost living it live.
What customers tell me about escort services are also first hand testimonials! So let’s see what it’s al about.
Since economical crisis in Spain has pushed men —both young and mature guys!— to offer sexual services. As they go, escort services are believed to be a fast and easy way to make money.
Some of my friends think that all escorts must be amateurs. Because —to them— this is not a permanent job you can learn or be trained for. Until you get in retirement, like any conventional job.
In my opinion being an escort can also be a calling. Since I know escorts who just love their job! They specialise in many aspects to get better, they train in new skills and in specific directions. From social skills to foreign languages. And also some fetish practices that can be very specific.
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On the contrary, this is what a very different kind of escorts told me:
“I hate this. I will quit this job as soon as I can find me a regular job”.
As you already guess, the differences among escorts are not only the reasons that pushed them to offer their services. In my opinion the most relevant is the way how they face this job.
“This is my calling. I like serving men, I have fun doing it and I’m out the closet. My close friends and my partner know where I’m earning my money from”.
Which group of escorts would you choose?
Escorts and money
“This is a fast way to earn money. I can pay all my bills and also save some money for my dreams. Only this way I will be able to buy me a car some day. I also need a plastic surgery on my nose”.
“I’m helping my family. Because mum, dad and sister are unemployed. And this is better and safer than dealing with other stuff you know”.
All human beings handle money in a different way. And escorts are no exception. I could not find a specific way escorts see money. All of us are human and we suffer passions, preferences and troubles alike. So it does not depend on your job. You just see money how you see it regardless of your job.
But it also does depend on your income status!
“Money is never enough. Because the more you earn the more you spend. I think I’m trapped in a spiral”.
Amateur escorts and limits
Amateurs are everywhere, in all kinds of jobs. Some professionals call them “intruders”. Sometimes even “impostors”.
Those amateur guys don’t even guess a little bunch of all the professional tricks —let alone the true job skills.
“You don’t need to know anything to be an escort”.
Somebody told me this recently. Well while this is true for amateurs, I think this is the worst insult for a professional escort. An escort needs to master quite a lot of stuff to offer a good service. And much much more to be excellent!
I bet this guy would instantly tell the difference between a professional escort and an impostor.
Nevertheless, amateur escorts have lots of limits and can be surprisingly picky in some departments.
“Please don’t kiss me. Please don’t touch me. Sorry I am only a top. Please send me a face picture. Not now. No hairy men. No Asians please”.
And zillions of other surprising and weird personal limits.
I can tell you professional escorts are quite more flexible.
Though honesty is never a bad asset, it is also useful not to fail when serving certain customers. I believe honestly can take you much further than silence. And when silence means accepting some stuff you don’t feel comfortable with, you’re certainly on the wrong track.
Short term escorts
Honestly, amateur masseurs and amateur escorts alike aren’t lasting a long time. They come and go in the blinking of an eye. They are unable to set up a proper business. Much less offering the guarantees a brand can hold.
To them the first disgusting experience with a customer will bring some unbearable dissatisfaction. Patience, discipline, constance and hard work is not for those short term amateurs.
“I can’t use an elevator, sorry, not visiting you at floor 34. Only one digit stories”.
This is true, believe it or not.
As soon as new escorts face the real life they feel frustrated. The result is no word of mouth, no recommendation, and a shrinking amount of “gigs”.
Wrong reasons to be an escort
“Someone told me I could make €1,000.00 a day”.
This is also true. As long as you have some experience, many regular customers —and the right marketing skills.
It takes some time to build up a business like that. In fact, this is true for whatever type of business!
Young men who believe the following statements usually are failing to succeed. To them this is the only reason to work as an escort though.
- Quick money
- Having fun and meeting sexy guys
- The “Pretty woman” syndrome
- A life like in the movies
There are many kinds of movies about escorts. The fairy tales and also the dark dramas. And all of them have a true side of the real thing. As everywhere, there are no lights without shadows.
“I like it so much when my customers take me out shopping”.
Unfortunately this happens seldom. You can’t count on this. More that that, I personally think this is not good to accept. Since you are already making your money with your job. I’d feel like a doll, I’d feel used. I prefer to spend the money wherever and whenever I need it. So not just to be shown off.
Escorts are not always meeting the sexy daddy who is married and leading a second life. Many customers are regular men, both gay and straight, who just need a release. Guys next door, or even your boss at the fast food restaurant.
During the pandemics more and more clients have told me they have been tricked by cheap escorts in Barcelona. The lack of professionalism goes really far, and those guys who aren’t even amateur escorts will fake an encounter to assault you. By bye to money, smart phones, credit cards, personal belongings and reputation. And hello to long police station bureaucracy and unnecessary time wasting. Just to save a bunch of euros.
Besides, the unprofessional guys won’t remind you about the covid-19 precautions.
Professional versus amateur escorts
The pros are usually handsome and perfect body guys. Though not always. Because many highly professional and successful escorts are not the Versace, Armani or Dolce & Gabbana models.
So you even don’t need to have an XXL dick.
Of course some common sense, some style, taking care of nutrition, leading a balanced life, grooming and sports are also relevant.
Many professional escorts are regular guys. But they master the tricks of personal seduction. I know some of them and believe I’d never thought what their job was until they came out.
Succesful in Barcelona
You will find the most successful escorts in Barcelona visiting this link. I know them all personally, some of them can also perform magnificent massages.
Jorge, Benito, Leo and Matt are not the youngest anymore though. They all started at the age of 19 and are now 30. All of them have a brilliant future ahead!
They master seduction, tenderness, complicity and —of course— sex!
Finally, sex is not the only department they are so experienced at!
Sharing some time with them will help you have a sneak peak. This way you’ll be closer to understand the hidden dimensions of being a professional escort.
I just wanted to share some thoughts about this subject. Maybe because this job gets really close to mine, interactive tantric massage for gay men.
Have a nice weekend!