Paying for sex is an option, as everything in our consuming oriented economy. And a service we use more often than we confess! Although there are many men who see this as self deprecating or humiliating.
Why is there this big silence around the sex services? Sex industry is huge though!
Paying for sex
Sex as a work is one of the most ancient jobs. Pay either with money or in exchange of some other benefits. But sex is a service that has a high value. Since the first centuries of mankind.
We are even paying for sex while we are not aware.
“I had sex with him because I needed him to introduce me to his boss”.
In some societies women marry men to create a new family. Both original families look hard to find the right male and female candidates for the deal. Then they deliver the young lady. Deep down this is a way to sell a whole human being. The trade involves economic stability though also sex and reproduction. But it is never seen as trading, and it is deeply rooted into social behaviour. Though right in a way that makes it socially acceptable. And even prestigious!
Paying for sex, a shame?
We brag about our dinner yesterday night in a well known restaurant. An expensive one, mind you. But we never mention when we have some sex we are paying for. Even if it was absolutely great!
The sex industry is making much more money than the restaurants! Worldwide. Now imagine the size of this iceberg.
There are countless ways to pay for sex. Most of the times we are not even aware of it though. Some relationships base on complicated and sometimes unaware deals.
I wrote about expensive boyfriends a couple weeks back. These are also some wicked ways to pay for sex. Though one of both is not aware of it… or does not want to be.
The concept of shame is a very social one. If certain people know about our private whereabouts we could feel shame. But not always regarding intimacy as in sex. There are many men ashamed of not earning the right amount of money, or not having the right job.
I do have many requests for very special practices. Just to include them into my massage service. These men are aware they will have a hard time to find a casual encounter. It’s hard to find some willing to perform some very precise paraphilia. They do not even waste a minute trying to explain their preferences to countless potential sex partners. Just to be dismissed right away.
Save the embarrassing and go pro!
Pay to be free
Nowadays it is less and less a shame but a practical solution to an everyday issue. Since your job doesn’t leave you enough space for a relationship. Or you lead a specific lifestyle like traveling constantly.
“I don’t feel like being committed right now. Let me have a break from relationships. I also need to explore many other things”.
It is not a shame anymore to be single. To some men being single is actually a calling. They are really managing their single-ness in great ways!
“I just want to ‘cut the crap’ and pay for the man I really like. I’m saving all the drinks and all the blah-blah”.
“I like to choose. If what or who I like wears a price tag I’m paying for it”.
Is erotic massage also sex?
This is a very controversial issue. If erotic massage was not about some sex, there would be no customers at all.
How far into sex is erotic massage actually getting?
There are as many answers as men on Earth. Sex is a concept that can range from a caress to some extremely wild and dangerous paraphilia. The shades are countless.
If you ask 100 erotic masseurs you’ll get 100 different answers about this though.
I see myself as a sex worker. It is not my sexual satisfaction I am working for. I know this is difficult to understand to many customers.
“I’d like to share all this pleasure with you”.
And I do, though my way. I am performing a service. So something useful for you. Something you need. This is why you are paying for it. You choose the place, the moment and the service. I confess I also get very excited, but the goal is your satisfaction.
Let’s put it this way: your satisfaction is my satisfaction.
How much sex is that? Well since you are requesting a massage you expect to be receiving. So it is about receiving the pleasure and themass job I’m offering for you.
Regular paying for sex encounters —as an escort can offer— work in a different way. And if you call me you choose to have a massage.
Different needs, different services!
“There are days i need an escort. Something wild and no matter how quick. There are other days though I need some mindful connection. As yours”.
As adults we have the knowledge to decide and choose. Pay for sex or pay for erotic massage. You are taking the right decision because you are aware of your needs.
Gay massage in Barcelona
Gay tantric massage is some erotic bodywork. It is about awareness, mindful massage and a very special intimate connection! It needs some training, some expertise and the honest calling for this job.
Feel free to ask whatever you need to know or send me an SMS.
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See you in Barcelona!