Italian massage customers are different from other European men. Because Italian society has still the ancient family structure. What it is this all about?
Italy is the home of design and style. The best fashion, the perfect shoe design, exclusive cars. Many famous designers are homosexual —and closeted.
Masculinity and Italy go well together. Maybe that’s the reason for prejudice. Because in Italy masculinity is still seen as unrelated to homosexuality.
Why are Italian massage customers different?
First off I need to say that Italian men are very different depending on their birth location.
- Northern Italy
- Southern Italy
Northern Italy has a strong Middle European influence. The big and cosmopolitan Milano is very close to Paris and Berlin when it comes to mentality. Even more now after the opening of the huge train tunnel connecting to Zürich. Milano is trendy, stylish, expensive and open minded.
On the opposite extreme you find Rome, Naples, Palermo and the South mediterranean lifestyle.
As you can see you can go from elaborate and stylish to ancient Catholic morals.
The power of “Mamma”
Italian society is still very matriarcal. The famous “Mamma” has a powerful influence on all men. Men are spoiled from the very early years as babies. With kisses, amazing food and not allowing men to cook nor clean or do any kind of domestic stuff.
But the price is very high and they will be paying back for the rest of their lives with an almost blind obedience. And self punishing because they don’t come up to what their parents had planned.
Gay Italian men have a hard job pleasing everybody. Mamma wants grand children. Father would never understand you like men. The fear of the ultimate family catastrophe prevents a high percentage of gay men to come out the closet.
Apparently Italian families love drama. But not the gay one!
Italian massage customers say
“Barcelona is a wonderful paradise for gay life! As a visitor I can choose so many gay services we don’t have in Italy!”
“I feel so free here! In Barcelona I can really live up my dreams!”
Italian men feel like unleashed when they first step off the plane and enter the city. No one knows them here, no neighbour eyes are watching, no following and no judging.
Barcelona is like an oasis where you can live up your gay lifestyle with no fear.
Gay Italian massage customers
Some other gay customers though are extremely free of taboos and prejudice. These are the youngest guys between the age of 20 and 39. They are very aware of their influence on new society and fight for their rights.
Fortunately new generations see life through a more optimistic lens.
To these guys erotic massage is a common practice —they need it, they have it.
“In Italy it is difficult to find a massage like yours. Only a therapy masseur can offer some extra services —but you have to know him well. Normally you have to search for escorts, and you know it’s not massage at all”.
Mature Italian massage customers
Mature Italians are famous for being sexy and stylish. They really are!
Most of them have a bunch of sons and grand sons. Only a few of them are divorced from their wives, and even a fewer amount are living their homosexuality openly.
“No one in my family and either job colleagues can imagine I like men. I am living a double life but it’s okay. It’s an effort but it pays out”.
Secrecy and split lives feel comfortable to mature Italian men. I agree with them on this fact:
“Nobody needs to know what I’m doing in my bedroom”.
These men know exactly what they want, they know how to ask for it in an elegant way, and they usually get it.
Italian massage customers’s reviews
“I do not have a high esteem of erotic massage. I thought this was going to be something tasteless and tacky. But you do an amazing job! I am a masseur myself —of course a therapy masseur!”
This man needed to speak to me for a while before deciding on having his massage. Well, it was more like interrogation. Once he checked everything was okay he even regretted he chose the basic massage menu an not the naked one.
“You absolutely convinced me. I felt safe and confident. And you delivered an amazing bodywork! Honestly!”
Other Italian men have told me they first liked my pictures:
“Your body is like a classic sculpture. Your beauty is a virile and classic one. It matches your massages style: balanced, beautiful, sexy —and a fond memory forever!”
Just let me thank all Italian customers from here. It is a pleasure serving you!