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Gay sex workers

Gay sex workers is a huge professional community around the world. Though most of the times we are absolutely invisible.

This is a fascinating world though! As hidden as desired. As rich as miserable, as deep as shallow.

Follow me and discover new facts. From the inside!

Gay massage and sex

Most of my customers agree with me on this issue: masseurs are not sex workers.

A few guys though address to me like this for instance:

“As a sex worker, do you take clients from all ages?”

So the limits between massage and sex are very blurry to some guys. The easiest way to tell them apart it is this one:

“What body parts are you using to perform your job?”

Because we all know erotic masseurs are working 100% of your body. Though restraining the tools. Because as masseurs we perform stimulation using only our hands.

Gay sex workers

Escorts, fake masseurs and other sorts of sex workers use all of their bodies. To me, using these body parts means performing sex:

  • Mouth
  • Penis
  • Anal area

This means that oral sex and penetration are the clear difference between performing some erotic massage and practising sex. No matter what roles are taking the receiver and the professional.

Escorts are sex workers

To me the world of escorts is a fascinating one. Many of my friends are escorts besides erotic masseurs. They can see no limits between massage and sex, so they don’t see themselves like crossing any boundaries.

“To me the only difference is the price. I take both massage and sex seriously as my job”.

This is how Matt sees his job.

Masseurs and sex workers

No matter how often they tell me:

“You are also a sex worker”

I confess I don’t care. Because what they say, how I feel and my intimate approach to my job are different points of view.

Sure! I am a sex worker because my job gives you some sexual satisfaction. Release, orgasm, ejaculation, shooting, no matter how you call it. It is sexual pleasure!

And I’m very aware of it. The thing is I don’t expose my own sexuality to satisfy myself. The goal is always your satisfaction, not mine.

“I always choose massage because I want to lay back and let some other do the hard work. Call me selfish, but this is a service and I’m paying for it!”

Benefits of massage

I have already written many posts about this issue. But I never give up saying it all again!

  • Longer time of enjoyment
  • Full body stimulation, as the opposite of only sexual parts
  • More intimate and lasting sensual communication
  • Safe and responsible
  • Awareness
  • Mutual respect

There are many more though! Some men tell me exactly what is their personal reason to choose erotic massage instead of explicit sex.

If you still need to talk about this don’t hesitate: call me!

Paco: +34676648226

See you soon in Barcelona!