The gay Libido massage is a somewhat difficult concept. We first need to define “libido”. Furthermore, is there also something like a “gay libido”?
What is the libido exactly?
“Libido” is the Latin word for “desire” and “lust”. Since Sigmund Freud started to use this word in the 1920’s it became a more and more popular concept.
So the meaning is literally “sexual drive“, “sexual appetite”. In psychoanalysis the definition of Libido is “the energy of the sexual drive as a component of the life instinct”. I also spoke about sexual energies in a previous post.
Gay men and the Libido
Gay men are known for their natural way to express sexual desire and sexual needs. As for me, I am also very open to talk about this intimate side of my personal life.
Straight men instead feel shy to speak about their emotional dimension. They usually focus on “how many” ladies they are dating. “Competition” is a more likely term to describe conversations in straight men gatherings.
So libido and its emotional and intimate dimension is a common conversation in gay gatherings.
“We like to speak about sex!”
As one of my closest friends states. Though the more profound meanings are oftentimes very present. So it’s not all about “how much” and “how many”. Because the “who” and the “how” do also matter quite a lot.
The individual gay Libido
“I’m always horny. Is this normal?”
If there is one thing I am observing every day since I’m working as a masseur it’s this:
There is no “normal guy” and no average. We are all unique!
Every man has his own bio-rhythms, so his own scale of what’s horny and what’s frigid.
I guess the symptom of something not working well is discomfort. We start bothering when we feel uneasy.
“Lately I feel less and less sexual drive”.
Or, on the other hand:
“I can’t stop having sex. I need many different men constantly”.
Both men in the examples are aware that something’s wrong. Though just because they’re wondering. I’d like to stress the fact that many other men feel absolutely right in either sex drive levels.
Gay Libido massage
There are many ways to find the right balance for sex drive. Each man has his preferences. Though also personal situations can push you to one or other ways:
- Finding the right partner with the same —or similar— sex drive
- Accepting oneself —so a matter of mindfulness
- Practicing Yoga
- Frequenting a therapist or coach
- Hiring tantric masseurs
Of course erotic tantric masseurs are my favourite option! Why? very easy! Since erotic massage has so many benefits. The most relevant is you’ll be enjoying the therapy time!
While you are doing something good for your sexual balance, you’re also enjoying it. It is similar to eating while being on a diet! Of course you’ll be guided.
Gay Libido massage in Barcelona
Many men visiting Barcelona are looking for erotic massage. More and more stressed gentlemen hire my services. Both gay and straight though. Because they see it as a release for tensions. And oftentimes they value more the sexual aspects than the bodywork itself. But it’s okay!
If you wish to enjoy some true mindful massage session, I’m your man as well!
It’ as easy as calling me!
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See you soon!