Dos and donts of out-call massage. These are the most relevant facts about gay erotic massage etiquette. A “must know” for customers and masseurs.
Dos and donts are usually seen as an annoying facet about any job. Learning these is sometimes boring because you think you already know it. But you can be surprised by things that happen to be not too obvious or even seem irrelevant.
Until you have an argument with a customer!
These are some tips and tricks I learned with my own experience. I wish I was told before bout many of them!
Dos and donts of out-call massage
As a gay erotic Tantra masseur I am also offering out-call massage. Many local customers in Barcelona enjoy the convenience of being served at their homes.
Many business men from around the world are also using this very convenient, time-saving and money-saving service. I perform my best gay massages inside your hotel room as well.
Gossiping just at the first moment of entering the customers’ apartment is un-sexy and can be a serious turn-off. Anyway, don’t be the first to be too talkative. Some customers are, though they might be putting you on test. Don’t disclose any information about other customers, where you are just coming from or going to next. Previous or next customers are especially a no-no. Your customer could be thinking you’ll speak about him to the next one.
Dont’ ask for a drink
Usually it is the customer offering it. Let him feel like the master at his own place. Many customers enjoy it. They like to serve you! Many others want to go straight to the massage. It might be getting late to them or they may forget it. Don’t be the one asking for it. You don’t want to listed to an answer as “I don’t have any!”.
Don’t touch stuff
Sometimes you are left alone in the hall. Just a minute. Or for too long. While the guy is looking for the money or on the phone. Dont’ touch his books, his stuff on the coffee table, nor look too close at his framed family pictures.
Commenting art items or antiques is also risky. Your customer might be paranoid and think you are collecting information about expensive goods. In Spain some delivery services are connected to burglars who collect interesting addresses for the summer robbery campaign.
Avoid personal comments
This guy showed me his ex-boyfriend on a picture with him, and I went “wow, was he handsome!”. This customer felt immediately jealous because he took it as he was not as sexy to me as his ex. That’s a mistake. Be extremely discrete. Silence is always the smartest option.
Don’t touch the money
You might think the money on the counter is for you. Don’t assume anything! Let the customer be the one handing it to you.
I use to have a customer who is always putting the money on the night stand. To me this is some very “escortish” stuff. Time and again I always wait for him to point at it. I just wait. He knows.
Grabbing it might feel as too greedy from your part. Patience is always a virtue.
Don’t pee in the shower
Use the toilet. Your are not home. The pee smell could be hard to go away and the customer might feel uncomfortable about it.
This is also true for when playing water sports! I once received a golden shower by a customer —extra fetish massage service. So I assumed he would not mind me peeing in the shower after he came. He was really disgusted. He only likes the smell of his own pee.
The best advise always is “do just what they are asking you to do”.
Do you have any suggestions? Please get back at me!
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