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5 lies about tantra

5 lies about Tantra

5 lies about Tantra to end this year full of pleasures and discovering! Yes, during 2015 we learnt a lot about Tantra and erotic massage as a specific service for gay men in Barcelona.

5 lies about Tantra

There are many more lies about Tantra for sure. The right word is “misconceptions” or “confusions”. But still many men believe what others say. Or believe even in rumours. That’s when these ideas become lies.

It is about time to cast some light upon all these.

The recurring 5 lies about Tantra

let0s summarise them first. Then I will go into each of them in details.

  1. “Tantra means sex”
  2. “Tantra takes you to spiritual illumination”
  3. “Tantra masseurs are buddhists”
  4. “Tantra massage does not include ejaculation”
  5. “You need to join a sect of Tantra”

As Said on the headline, none of these is true. These are all lies with different goals, all of them against Tantra. All of them against your own pleasure!

“Tantra means sex”

Tantra is a very complex tissue of different disciplines. From cooking recipes to spiritual guidance.

It is true that Tantra includes positions for the sexual act. Like we know from Kamasutra. But taking the whole world of Tantra for just these is an error.

“I thought Tantra means anal sex”

If Tantra was equal to sex then Tantra services would be all and only about sexual services. This is not my case. I am not an escort but a Tantra and gay erotic masseur.

“Tantra takes you to spiritual illumination”

This is a likely goal and achievement. if you take the long road of Tantra and his huge wisdom in all its disciplines.

“I want to achieve illumination. Can we please have a 30 minutes Tantra massage?”

Some men are really confused about illumination or enlightenment. If illumination is this relevant it will sure not take place in 30 minutes. Nor in 30 days. It is the work of a whole life of growth.

“Tantra masseurs are buddhists”

I am not a buddhist. And will never be. Tantra for me is a tool. It is a tool to share and bring sensual pleasure. Tantra massage is a tool to achieve consciousness about sexual pleasure and sensual communication among men.

“I thought I had to read some books about Buddha before having a Tantra massage”.

You are totally free to enjoy my gay Tantra massage anytime. You don’t need any kind of previous knowledge. It is about your enjoyment!

“Tantra massage does not include ejaculation”

Some men ask me this weird question:

“Is ejaculation an upgrade? If I want to climax, do I have to pay an extra amount of money?”

Never! Ejaculation is something natural. It is a spontaneous side effect, it is not the only goal of a Tantra massage. It comes as a logical result of intimate stimulation.

To men who only need ejaculation as release it is extremely relevant.

To me it is a spontaneous part of a very special and intimate whole body experience. It takes you to ejaculation only if you want to.

I respect all men who prefer to keep their sexual energy for themselves or to share with someone else.

“You need to join a sect of Tantra”

This is the most obvious lie. My beliefs are about individual freedom. I respect all religions but I am not interested in changing anyone’s intimate spiritual or material beliefs.

All customers coming to me are accepted as they are.

You are welcomed no matter your age (older than 18 of course!) and no matter what other physical or even sexual role preferences!

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